Is your kid stuck in neutral? Let's help them grow up.
Rebuild trust, restore sanity, and put your child on a path to independence with the Freedom to Launch course from Michael Devine, the original Failure-to-Launch expert.
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4.9+
(170+ reviews)
15+ years of clinical insight, now in an on-demand course backed by our money-back guarantee.
Momentum transformation in six months

They're stuck and you're paying the price.

If this sounds like your family, this course is for you:

Constant worry

Stuck or Behind
You see them falling further behind their peers, and it keeps you up at night.

Walking on Eggshells

No Routine
Every day feels unpredictable. You never know if they'll engage or shut down.

You pay for everything

Bad Habits
You cover rent, food, and bills… but it doesn't help them get off their feet.

Endless nagging

Low Drive
You repeat the same advice, but nothing sticks, and you feel drained.

Relationships strained

Lonely
Your marriage, other kids, and even friendships suffer because all energy goes into them.

Scared to push them

Avoidant
You know tough boundaries are needed, but fear pushing them away for good.

A program that works

Results that stick
Boundaries held
Get your confidence back
Tools that work
Measurable progress
Peace at home
100%
Of parents report less stress, guilt, and doubt in the first 30 days.
84%
Say they finally stopped over-functioning (covering bills, cleaning up, micromanaging).
91%
Who’d tried therapy say our course gave them more practical tools to use at home.
98%
Say our private parent community made staying confident and consistent much easier.
90%
Say family stress dropped and communication improved
*Based on survey results from 139 people who took Freedom to Launch. Survey respondents were not incentivized in any way. (REAL parents. REAL results!)

Meet Michael Devine

The original Failure to Launch expert, author, and clinician who’s helped hundreds of families launch their child into independence.

Michael Devine, 45

F2L Co-Founder & Course Creator
I know “stuck” firsthand. As a young adult I drifted from my path. Low motivation, no direction, mad at the world, until a wake-up call forced me to change. That experience is why I do this work. I understand how frightening it is for parents to watch a child stall, and how powerful it is when a family gains structure, clarity, and follow-through.

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor and Independent Chemical Dependency Counselor. For 15+ years I’ve worked with hundreds of families facing failure-to-launch. My approach is practical and whole-person: clear boundaries, simple scripts for tough conversations, habits that stick at home, and an emphasis on the mind–body connection. I was among the first to call out the “failure to launch” problem and wrote Failure to Launch as a guide for other clinicians to help families.

Now, I've created the Freedom to Launch course so parents can use this framework without expensive one-to-one care, and learn alongside a private community of parent peers. My aim is simple: restore peace at home, help you lead with confidence, and give your kid the structure to grow up (quickly).
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Original F2L Expert
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15+ Years Experience
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Guided 500+ Families
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Proud father & husband
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What’s the curriculum like?

From the original “Failure to Launch” expert
Self-paced, on-demand from any device
Short video lessons, ~30 mins per week
Live practice sessions with other parents
and feedback from Michael
Daily parent-to-parent conversations about what’s working
Regular accountability check-ins
Guaranteed progress in 30 days
Course tailored to your specific FTL situation

Your journey with us

A proven program that's worked for hundreds of families. Most see noticeable changes within the first few weeks.

Enroll & get your plan

Take a short family assessment to uncover what’s keeping your kid stuck. We'll slot you into the right program and you'll choose your course start date.

Follow the online framework

Short lessons with practical ideas, tools, and scripts. Each phase builds new habits, firmer boundaries, and confidence (with support from a parent peer group).

See real change that sticks

Watch stress ease and responsibility return. You’ll learn how to track progress, refine your approach, and maintain results long-term to finally see your child grow up.

PARENTS APPROVE

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Get the course and join 300+ loving
parents in our online community.
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What made this program different was the combination of structure and community. Other parents in the group gave us honest encouragement, and Michael’s framework gave us tools to actually follow through. Before this every attempt at boundaries turned into yelling or shutting down and now we can calmly hold limits without the freakouts. Results are better than expected. Our daughter is finally following through on basic responsibilities and putting an effort into school again.
Greg V.
Greg V.
Tampa, FL
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Finally found something that works and now I’m confident in the plan we follow each week. The structure, lessons, and strategies from the course actually fit our family and have transformed our home life. I feel like I have my son back <3
Desiree M.
Desiree M.
Austin, TX
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Can’t believe how fast things shifted. Within weeks, just from me applying the lessons, our daughter is showing more confidence. She still has anxiety, but we're not letting it be the crutch that she used to lean on. THANK you to all the other parents that helped us through this.
Rachel S.
Rachel S.
Carlsbad, CA
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Before FTL, our son wouldn’t stick to anything. He’d start and quit immediately. I learned how to help him set goals and hold him accountable without constant conflict. I won't say it's been easy, but for once I’m seeing real follow-through!
Michelle J.
Michelle J.
Tulsa, OK
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There's no quick fixes, but Freedom to Launch is the first thing that's worked at all. It showed me how to hold boundaries in ways I never did before even when I doubted it would work for our situation. Jackie is doing things for herself now and actually caring about the people around her.
Jennifer R.
Jennifer R.
NYC
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I've never done an online course, but this has been SO worth it. We’d tried therapy and coaching that never stuck but this gave us clear steps to stop enabling our son. He's still got a ways to go but he's more independent every day!
Elizabeth S.
Elizabeth S.
Charleston, SC
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After trying therapy for years, this finally clicked because it focused on us, not just him. I’ve got real tools that fit our hectic schedule, the parent community has been amazing, and the progress we're seeing is undeniable.
Heather K.
Heather K.
Phoenix, AZ
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I was skeptical that an online course could replace therapy, but it honestly worked better because it gave us actionable steps instead of abstract ideas. I finally know how to respond instead of reacting in panic or guilt.
Mandy E.
Mandy E.
Tulsa, OK
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The parent community alone is worth it. Being around families going through the exact same thing made me realize we weren’t completely hopeless, we were just stuck in patterns we couldn’t see. The support has been life-changing for us.
Andy P.
Andy P.
San Francisco, CA
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I genuinely thought our situation was hopeless. Our son had dropped out of two programs, refused therapy, and spent most days sleeping or gaming. I didn’t think anything would work unless he changed first. Freedom to Launch flipped that belief upside down. Once we stopped rescuing him and started holding calm, consistent boundaries, he slowly began to step up. It wasn’t overnight, but he’s taking responsibility for things he never touched before. There's finally hope for us <3
Elena D.
Elena D.
Minneapolis, MN
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What surprised me most was how much calmer I became. I was walking on eggshells for so long. The scripts, examples, and weekly structure made everything feel doable rather than overwhelming.
Grace C.
Grace C.
Pasadena, CA
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The course showed us how to set boundaries without hovering. I’m calmer. I focus on what I can control and he’s actually responding. It's been humbling to recognize that I had power to push him into adulthood all along...
Santiago R.
Santiago R.
Los Angeles, CA
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We were skeptical because nothing else had worked, but the structure of this course made it easy to follow. Every week gave us something concrete to try instead of vague advice. Our daughter is actually managing her own schedule now and not relying on us to do everything.
Carla S.
Carla S.
Boise, ID
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My biggest fear was that our son would be 30 and still living in our basement. The boundaries Michael teaches are firm but compassionate, and using them consistently has given us our confidence back. It feels like there’s a future again.
David G.
David G.
San Antonio, TX
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Therapy never addressed OUR patterns. This did, and our son got his first job in months.
Donna R.
Donna R.
Kansas City, MO
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I used to lie awake at night imagining the worst-case future for our son that he’d never be able to take care of himself abd that we’d be supporting him forever. That fear controlled everything I did as a parent but Freedom to Launch didn’t just help him grow up it helped ME let go of that fear. Once I started parenting with focus instead of panic everything changed. We still have hard days, but I finally feel like we’re on a real path forward.
Tom L.
Tom L.
Sacramento, CA
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Clear, practical, and actually effective. My son is showing up in ways he hasn't done in years.
Amy F.
Amy F.
Phoenix, AZ
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What surprised me most was how much calmer I became. I was in a constant state of anxiety before this program but now I no longer nag, beg, or escalate and our daughter definitely notices it. The dynamic between us feels less tense and more respectful and that's made change in other areas so much easier.
Geoff K.
Geoff K.
Atlanta, GA
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This course finally gave us a plan we could stick to. Was pretty surprised to learn that doing boundaries the right way could actually work even with a very resistant son.
Marianne T.
Marianne T.
Denver, CO

Why F2L works when nothing else does.

A personal growth system

Parent Focus, Not Self-Help

Not another self-help program for your child. This is a proven coaching system for parents who're tired of enabling and ready to create lasting change. We show you how to set firm boundaries, shift unhealthy patterns, and finally help your child take ownership of their life.

Science-Backed Curriculum

Our program blends practical coaching with research from psychology, family systems, and behavior science. You’ll learn tools that are grounded in evidence, yet simple enough to apply daily, so progress at home doesn’t fade after a few weeks.

Community Support

You don’t have to carry this alone. With Momentum, you’ll join a supportive network of parents facing the same Failure-to-Launch challenges. Inside the community, families share what’s working, celebrate real wins, and learn from each other’s setbacks.

For Real-life Challenges

From money, chores, and screen time to school, jobs, and independence, these are the struggles parents face every day. We provide ready-to-use strategies and scripts that help you handle them with confidence instead of frustration.

Outcome-Based

A structured program with clear milestones and progress markers, so you know it’s working. Parents track changes in boundaries, conflict, and responsibility, giving you confidence that real growth is happening.
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Frequently asked questions

What does this course do exactly? 

Freedom to Launch is a self-paced course designed for parents of young adults who feel “stuck.” Instead of working with your kid directly, the course teaches you how to change the patterns at home. Setting healthy boundaries, communicating effectively, and creating the structure that naturally leads to independence. The tools and concepts you'll learn are the product of 15+ years of Michael's own clinical experience.

Who is the course for?

Freedom to Launch is for parents of young adults (typically 18–30) who are struggling with issues like lack of motivation, social isolation, gaming or screen overuse, poor follow-through, or dependence at home. If you’ve tried therapy, nagging, or tough love and nothing has stuck, this course gives you a proven playbook that's already worked for hundreds of families.

Does this actually work?

Yes – if you are willing to change your approach, you’ll see results. We won’t magically turn a gamer into a CEO overnight, but you’ll learn how to set limits on screen time (one small example), require contributions at home, and motivate him or her to take small steps towards independence (like applying to X jobs/week). Many parents see a drive spark in their child within weeks once they implement these changes. And remember, you’re backed by our money-back guarantee – if you're not happy with your progress, you get your money back.

How long does the course take?

The course is self-paced, so you can move through it on your own schedule, but it’s not something you can rush. Because we care about real, lasting change, the program goes far beyond teaching concepts. You’ll work through a series of interactive lessons, reflections, and skill-based exercises that ensure you can apply what you’re learning at home with confidence.

The course was developed with the help of learning design experts to balance insight with practice, meaning parents don’t just learn what to do, but actually build the competence to do it. Most parents complete the course in about 8 weeks, though some finish in as little as 6, while others take 10 or more depending on their pace and family needs.

What if my spouse or co-parent disagrees with this approach?

That’s common, and we help with it. The course gives both parents a shared framework and communication strategies so you’re consistent at home. No more good cop/bad cop dynamics, just a unified front.

Do I need my child’s buy-in? They won’t attend any program with me.

No child buy-in needed, this program is for parents only. You’ll be making behind-the-scenes changes in how you interact, set boundaries, and support (or not support) your child. Often, your kid won’t even realize you’re “doing a program," they’ll just notice mom/dad is acting differently. That said, many parents find that as things improve, they share some lessons with their child (like a budgeting tip or a YouTube clip from the course) to bring them onboard subtly. But it’s not required. This is about empowering you to lead the change.

What if my child pushes back harder when I set new rules?

Pushback is normal at first, but we coach you through it. In one of your program modules, you’ll learn a step-by-step script for introducing new boundaries without it exploding into a fight (yes, it’s possible!). And another module covers exactly how to stay calm and firm even if they test you. The result: your child may resist for a short while, but once they see you’re consistent and loving, they almost always come around. We’ve seen even the most conflict-avoidant parents turn things around using our approach, so have faith, and remember that we and an entire community of other parents are here to support you through the transition.

What if my situation is different? (e.g., neurodivergent child, single parent, etc.)

Every family is unique, and we take that into account. The principles you’ll learn apply whether your child is neurotypical or neurodivergent (ADHD, ASD, etc.). In fact, many of our tools (like structured routines and clear rewards/consequences) work wonders for neurodivergent young adults craving consistency. If you’re a single parent, you’ll find support from others in similar shoes in our community, and our strategies are designed for one or two-parent implementation. We even have bonus resources on co-parenting and blended family challenges if that’s a factor. Bottom line: whatever your circumstances, you’ll adapt the core framework to fit, and our private parent community is here to help you do that. (And if an issue lies outside our scope, we’ll be honest and guide you to appropriate resources.)

How is this different from therapy or other parent programs?

Traditional therapy might help you vent or understand “why” issues are happening – but our FTL course focuses on “what to do about it now.” It’s very action oriented and practical. We provide concrete homework, scripts, and checklists (which most therapists can’t offer due to their format). Also, Michael’s specialty is this exact transition-to-adulthood phase. Whereas generic parenting programs might focus on toddlers or young teens, our content is laser-focused on the late-teen/young-adult stage. And unlike a one-hour-a-week therapy session, you get daily support via community and our on-demand lessons whenever you need them. Many parents use this program alongside therapy, since therapy can heal past wounds, while our program drives future action. And, of course, our success stories speak for themselves, something even most coaches in this niche can't claim.

Peer Support Every Step of the Way

Stuck on setting a curfew? Feeling guilty after a tough love moment? Post in the group and get instant encouragement and advice from parents who’ve been there.
*Course enrollment includes access to our community
Connect with families facing the same challenges
Celebrate every victory together
Hear what’s working right now in real homes like yours
Gain strength from peers who reinforce your boundaries
A private space to vent, learn, and feel understood

Our money-back guarantee

money-back guarantee

Get a full-refund if you’re not happy with your results.

It’s no accident that families who follow this system see real change. This course has been built from Michael Devine’s 15+ years of hands-on work with hundreds of parents and refined into a step-by-step program that gets results. However, if you complete the first 30 days (including all skill-building exercises) and don’t feel more confident in your boundaries or see meaningful progress at home, we’ll gladly provide a full refund. Our mission is to truly help your family, or we don’t want your money.

Freedom to Launch

What You Get:

The complete 8-Week Freedom to Launch Course — Michael Devine’s proven framework for helping parents break enabling cycles and set their child on the path to independence.
Step-by-step video lessons with Michael — 20+ guided modules that walk you through every phase, from setting boundaries to creating long-term independence.
Printable Worksheets & Conversation Scripts — ready-to-use tools for handling tough conversations, setting rules, and tracking progress.
Personalized Family Readiness Assessment — start with a quick intake to generate your tailored action plan based on your family’s unique situation.
Private Parent Community Access (included) — connect with other parents facing the same struggles, share wins, and gain real-world strategies to stay consistent.
Lifetime Access to All Course Materials — revisit the videos, scripts, and tools whenever you need a refresher.
Ongoing Updates & Bonuses — as the program grows, you’ll get access to new tools at no extra cost.
Working with Michael directly costs $300 per hour. With this course, you’re getting the same expertise (a $4500+ value), systematized and available on-demand, at a fraction of the price.
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